Becoming a Swinger.
The process of switching to a swinger lifestyle is now easier than ever thanks to modern conveniences. With the right mindset, every couple can make the transition to swinging without any issues. Remember that Swinging is not in the same page as cheating. It’s polygamous sexual activity between consenting adults. Before you think about making the commitment, you must be sure that your partner is in the same page as you are. To become a swinger, you both must be aware of all the pros and cons (even if there are very few cons!). If one is dragged into this lifestyle against their will, a relationship might suffer greatly in the process.
Here are a couple of ideas to get you started in embracing this lifestyle:
Look for swinger clubs in your city. Swinger clubs are one of the best places to visit in order to learn all of the nuances and mindsets of this lifestyle. Most of the swing clubs with good reputations will have web sites; however you won’t find private information about their members. Nevertheless, most members will post their e-mail addresses or phone numbers in case you want to contact them. When you contact a swing club, they will want to know some facts about you and your partner before accepting you. If this feels like a job interview, remember that they are doing it for the safety of their current members! If they feel that you will be a nice addition to their club, they’ll let you visit the place so you can get started right away. Swinger Nation UK is a great place to check out for those starting out.
Don’t break the rules. One of the most important rules for people that have recently embraced this lifestyle is to realize that most swinger clubs and meeting venues will have very strict rules and policies. For example, never be too pushy, a “no always means no.” Nobody should have sex against their will. If somebody says no to your offer, don’t ever take it personal and move on. Every couple has their own set of desires and interests so don’t enter a swinger club by falsely believing that everyone will be willing to interact with you in a sexual manner. Many swingers are very careful about their privacy and personal life. Swingers are normal people leading conventional lives, and making their private life public isn’t something they will be too happy about. Respect this rule and you will have little issues and a lifetime of enjoyment.
