Top 10 Reasons to Stay Single
For others being single means power. You can do what you want without thinking of commitment. You can try something new without someone who will be there to remind you of your limitations. This list talks about the common reasons why a person should enjoy life being single.
Being control over yourself!
When you are in a relationship, you tend to have some rules. It is either you rule over the other or the other one rule over you. It’s a matter of choice. But most of the time the older one gets hold of the authority. No question with that but the fact that sometimes it can affect your personal life really matters. Whatever you do or whatever you want for yourself can’t be realize if someone is controlling you. Once you are single, you can do what you want and you can get what you need for yourself.
Self-Indulgent is Possible
I’m sure most of the young ones will love this reason. Self-indulgent is something that you do or want to enjoy just to satisfy your ego. If you are in a relationship, there will be a time when the other one will remind you of your behavior. Just like for example: every one of us love to party all night long. Right? Partying is very common to young people who wanted to enjoy life as if there will be no tomorrow. Drinking beers and cocktails just name it and you will have it not unless you are in a relationship.
Freedom to wear what you desire!
This goes to all the single ladies out there. I’m sure most of the ladies here want to wear something that can show off their feminine side. Short skirts, spaghetti straps cocktail dresses and whatever it may be that can somehow reveal your inner body is not a problem if you are single. However, if you are in a relationship your partner can sometimes argue with you in terms of your outfit. Men can be very possessive. Most especially when their girlfriend wears a too revealing type of dress. They usually forbid their girlfriend to wear these clothes. You want to know why? Well it is because they hate people especially men who is looking at their girlfriend. But can this thing piss off a lady? Yes it does!
When you are in a relationship you submit yourself to your partner because it is your role. There is no problem with that. However, there are times that this can affect you. Having a responsibility is like a commitment that you should fulfill. Even this can limit your activities as a person you still need to stand up for your role. When you are single you can enjoy life without having guilt. No limitations, no commitments. Just have fun without responsibility.
No Sharing of Things
If you are in a relationship you tend to share everything you have to your love one. There is no question to that. But sometimes it can be very irritating. Once you are single, there will be no such thing as “sharing” of things. It is all about you and you only.
Single and Ready to Mingle
Being single means you can meet and greet friends. What I’m trying to sell here is that a person who is not in a relationship can gain new friends. It can be either on the same or opposite gender. If you have commitment in a relationship then I doubt if you do this behind their backs.
Flirting is Fun!
Singleness means flirting is possible. You can meet and hook with someone. But make sure you have to limit yourself. There is no problem with meeting different people but going beyond your safety box can mean something. Flirting is something that you show off your affection but not your body. But if your ego calls for it then make sure that you do it safe.
You don’t need to check your watch!
Being in a relationship oftentimes may have limitation. This limitation talks about the thing called “time”. When you go out and ask permission to your partner is good. But going out beyond your time limitation may mean bad for them. How can you enjoy your activity if from time to time you checked your watch? “Guys I need to get home by 9”. If you are just tailing up with this boundary then it is better for you to quit this thing. Common’ don’t try to kill the fun.
No Ifs and Buts
If you are in a relationship you tend to justify for your own stand. It is very common to partners who argue from time to time. This is where the “ifs and buts” goes in. It may sound very annoying but that is life in a relationship.
Anniversary is something that you celebrate for being in a relationship for a long period of time. This can be very enjoying. But when time goes by when your heart says no but your mind say stay sets in then anniversary can be very annoying. What if you forgot your anniversary? This could give you a big problem. What can you do? You’re just a human with room for error. But if you are single, you may not have this “anniversary” stuff but you can enjoy yourself without any guilty feelings.